Life can get
pretty crazy at times. Sometimes we forget how important it is to actually
listen to ourselves instead of others. Happiness is dependent upon ourselves!!!!!
There are some things in life you should always insist on doing--You, must
stand firm no matter what people say to you. Because you are what you are think
of…
1. Insist on chasing your dreams
To some people
your dreams might sound far-fetched, completely unobtainable, or downright
silly. No matter what other people say to you, always insist on following your
dreams. If you give in, or rather, give up on your dreams, you will never know
what could have happened. You only have one life to live, so you might as well
give it everything you’ve got. Forget the haters.
2. Insist on being the bigger person
All situations
and arguments are not created equally. Being the bigger person will ultimately
make you feel better. Other people might disagree and say you should have
fought back, or whatever else you should have done, but they don’t have to live
with the consequences. Be the bigger person in life and move on. Trust me, you
will be the one who wins in the long run.
3. Insist on forgiveness
Forgiveness is
not an easy thing. However, insisting on being forgiving will make you a
happier person. Once you forgive someone you feel a weight that is lifted off
your shoulders. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean you go back to the way things
were before, but it does mean letting yourself move on in a positive
direction—and that’s never a bad thing.
4. Insist on seeing the glass half-full
Screw that
glass-half-empty view. Positivity is a powerful thing. The more positive a
thinker you are, the more positive outcomes you will see in your life. Keep
those negative thoughts out, and those negative people out too. There is almost
always a bright side to a situation, and focusing on that will help get you
through.
5. Insist on staying true to yourself
No matter what
other people say or do, you should always be true to yourself. Throughout our
lives people will try to shape our ideas, or even try and get us to do things
we don’t believe in, which is why you should always be true to yourself. Make
decisions for yourself, and never compromise who you are.
7. Insist on learning from your mistakes
No matter what
people say, you will make mistakes in your life. Life is a learning process in
itself. Some people will make you feel bad about your mistakes, or insult you
for making them. However, don’t let that stand in your way from learning from
them. Accept your mistakes fully and really figure out what went wrong.
Knowledge is power.
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8. Insist on sticking up for what you believe in
We will all be
tested at some point in life to go against what we believe in. Our morals are a
strong part of who we are, and it is important to stand up for what you
believe. No matter what other people say or try to influence you with, stand
tall against them.
10. Insist on letting go of the past
It’s hard to let
go of the past sometimes, but it can really be affect your future. No matter
what anyone has to say about it, insist on letting go of your past and previous
grudges, and focus on the here and now. The past might have made you who you
are, but the future holds the power to change you into who you want to be. Let
go and feel the freedom that comes with it.
11. Insist on embracing change and creativity
A popular
aphorism is,”You cannot solve a problem in the same state of consciences that
created it.” Not everything can be solved in a traditional way. Change and
creativity are vital in today’s world. Things are always changing, so why
should we be any different? Embracing change will help you grow as a person,
and bring you opportunities that you would have otherwise missed out on.
Creativity allows your mind a chance to think differently and more freely.
Don’t listen to what others say about how change is bad, instead make something
out of it.
12. Insist on paying it forward
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Not everyone is
as fortunate as you might be. Try to remember that everyday. Take some time and
give back to the community that you live in. Giving back will boost your mood
no matter what you are going through. No matter what people might say to bring
you down, just remember that you have the power to brighten someones else’s
day. Always pay it forward.
well that it i hope you enjoy and learn something have a nice day =p
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/20-things-you-should-insist-matter-what-people-say.html
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